May
2, 2001 - Wednesday
Harry's mother has been showing
him a picture of her father for the last couple of days in anticipation of
his arrival today, trying to remind Harry about the Grampa. And, it seem to
pay off: either that or Harry's just brilliant. Within minutes of Grampa coming
in the house, Harry, without prompting was saying "Boppa."
Actually, when Grampa and his lady friend Judy first came in Harry was a bit
shy, smiling but withdrawing slightly to the comfort of his parents' shoulders
and thighs. His first utterance of "Boppa" actually came when I,
holding him in my arms, walked out into the back hall to close the door following
their entrance. There, in the privacy of separation and perhaps consciously
wanting to either test his voice or make sure he had the right name, Harry
said "Boppa." I went right back in the kitchen boasting that Harry
remembered, but he wouldn't duplicate the word right away. Perhaps, working
it through his mind a little more, or perhaps just waiting for the time to
be right, Harry found a spot over the following minutes when Grampa was there
but not talking and again, more forcefully this time, said "Boppa."
The reaction all around was predictable delight.
I actually picked Grampa and Judy up at the airport while Harry and his mother
ate an early dinner at home and had a interesting conversation with Grampa
regarding toddler word pronunciation. As I was noting the number of words
Harry has learned since Grampa's last visit in December, and how few Grampa
might actually recognize straight away, we mused about whether young speakers
can't quite make the proper sounds for words with their mouths, or whether
they can't quite hear that they're not exactly duplicating the right sounds.
Harry's "book" for milk, "zeesee" for horsey, and "bee'
for plane where clear examples. We didn't solve any science mysteries, but
for our own purposes we found ourselves leaning toward the latter. Since Harry
knows "m" for mama, "i" from bricky, along with K, it
seems he should probably be able to say milk. Grampa also remembered a time
when Harry's mother at a young age once talked about seeing "churchles."
He said "you mean turtles? She said "that's what I said: churchles."
Language is a complicated thing. Harry's doing great.
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