

October 30, 2003 - Thursday
    Harry was at home for lunch and his nap today, thanks to his second dentist 
    appointment. He seemed to remember his first 
    appointment very well and that made this one completely uneventful from 
    his point of view. They did find a cavity, however, and I'll have to figure 
    out how to get him mentally prepared for that some time over the next couple 
    of weeks. I haven't told him about it yet and I'm not sure that withholding 
    of information is right, but it feels like waiting until a bit closer to it 
    makes more sense than having him worry about it for a long time. 
    
    Harry's nap lasted longer than usual, a quiet familiar bed perhaps, and so 
    we pretty much left to get Jeremy right away when he woke up. I'm not sure 
    if that made him tired or me anxious, but he said something on the way that 
    both made me laugh and feel a little embarrassed. When we reached the intersection 
    of the main road to Mary's house, we had to wait behind another car. And, 
    that other car seemed to be in no hurry to venture out into the intersection 
    until the road was very clear in both direction. I guess Harry, like me, began 
    to recognize that it was taking an usually long time and, before I said anything 
    (consciously anyway), I heard Harry in the back seat say "come on" 
    in a manner clearly suggesting that the other car ought to move along its 
    way. It was really very funny to hear to a three-year-old directing road traffic 
    like that, especially because it was just what I was thinking, too. Of course, 
    the fact that he said it is a pretty good indication that he's heard me "thinking" 
    about wishing other cars onward before, too.
    
    
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