June
15, 2003 - Sunday
Fathers Day was pretty good this year. There was nothing particularly special
about it, just a lot of unexpected things that came together enough to make
me think "this was a good day." This morning whilst in the bathroom
I heard Jeremy calling "Ad'n"
in his determined way. His mother had given him a new travel tooth brush.
It was silly, but something I very much needed. We went to the beach with
the three cousins. It was cold, but Harry and I made a ball roll. Harry and
I saw a freight train just before lunch instead of the expected, and getting
somewhat old, passenger train. Harry, Ben, and I played mini-golf again. As
a bonus, a Fathers Day special let both Harry and me play for free. As a bigger
bonus, I had five holes-in-one, including 3 in a row. Harry had 2, although
both the second time he played the given hole, but that's no matter. We went
to find mommy, Jeremy, Chloe, and Aunt Lisa and parked at a metered parking
space. When we got back, a man was writing a ticket. I ran with Harry and
explained that the meter must have just ended because was finished golf at
4:52, drove to the spot (at least 5 minutes), and it was only 5:30. It was
all true and the man seemed to be in a generous mood. He stopped writing the
ticket. Finally, I had to run out to get a bottle of Chianti for our not-so-fancy
spaghetti dinner and got carded, by a manager no less who seemed to actually
study my license fairly carefully. Maybe I'm not such a tired old piece, over
the hill father after all. Lots of silly little happy moments. I guess that's
a lot of what the joy of parenting really comes down to anyway.
Comments, Opinions?