March 20, 2003 - Thursday
I got a little upset with Harry, in a calculated way (although I always wonder
whether my calculations in this matters are correct), this afternoon when
he peed in his Pull-up shortly after not peeing in mini toilet at school.
He's never used the "potty at school" and I dare say is intimidated
by it. But, since he's been doing pretty well at home with peeing in the potty,
I took an opportunity this afternoon to take him into the school bathroom
myself and help him try. His teacher said that he'd been dry all day and that
seemed to suggest that it was a good time to make a potential potty training
advancement. Alas, he could not bring himself to pee sitting on the potty
at school. So, when he did pee in his Pull-up a short time later, I made it
clear that I was disappointed that he had apparently not tried very hard at
school.
Is that too much pressure in this delicate area of learning? I hope not. I
didn't berate him, although the tone was clear, earnest, and direct, and tried
to focus on the fact that he should have tried when he was sitting on the
potty at school rather than that he had peed in his Pull-up. Hopefully, as
with all this potty training stuff, he got the right message.
Maybe so, after dinner he actually asked to go pee in the potty and did. That
is a first.
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