December 7, 2001 - Friday
Harry's daycare provider related an incident to me when I picked him up today
and I have to concede to wildly conflicting emotions about it. She says that
Harry, her six-year old boy, and the 18-month old boy in her care, Josh, were
playing with toy cars. They got a little over-excited and started throwing
them and she quickly tried to put a stop to it. She thought she had succeeded
until out of the corner of her eye she saw Harry throw one more car. Appropriately,
she turned to him and exclaimed "Harry!" To her amazement Harry
replied "Josh did it."
She says she was speechless, as was I at the thought of someone not even two
years old was already heading in that inevitable direction. I had thought
the terrible twos were more about tantrums, mood swings, and vying for attention
than they would be about cleverness and deceit. But, it's clear our boy is
already thinking, figuring, testing, and scheming and we have some work to
do redirecting this new line of learning.
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