June 2, 2004 - Wednesday
Tonight at dinner Harry asked for five pieces of avocado. That sort of exactness
is rather typical at dinner time, not so much because Harry is carefully planning
his diet or counting caloric intack, but because dinner time is a time when
the "type A" side of Harry's personality is often overt and his
attempt at controlling his environment heightened, probably by the annoyance
of having to sit still at the table instead of playing somewhere else. We
play along with these requests when practical, but sometimes they can become
rather annoying, especially when he's in something of a mood. Tonight, there
weren't really enough pieces to go around, so Harry ended up with only four
pieces of avocado and that started him complaining. So, in a parental moment
of half levity and half "I wish this would just stop" I reached
over with my fork and cut his biggest piece of avocado in half.
Now, I would have most expected at least a little toddler outrage from Harry,
to which I would have been ready to respond with a happy little math lesson
and, hopefully, change the subject. But, Harry was surprisingly not annoyed
at all. In fact, he was outright happy about it.
"Now I have five!" he said excitedly. He got it and he apparently
got what he wanted. Isn't math wonderful!
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