March 29, 2002 - Friday
"Uppy."
I hate "uppy."
"Uppy, mom." "Uppy, uppy, uppy":wrists and hands flapping
from arms held shoulder high.
It means pick me up and, for some reason, I just find it particularly grating.
Why? Well, it's baby talk for one thing, from a little boy who already knows
how to talk much better than that. Yeah, I know, Harry's only two and probably
doesn't know any better. He probably picked it up innocently enough from daycare.
But, there's something sickeningly saccharin about "uppy," like
a child reading from a script and trying to be cute, that is minimally offputting.
And, heck I think Harry does know better than to descend into whining as a
way of achieving desires. Baby talk is an unnecessary regression for Harry,
and when it's accompanied by the inevitably whiny voice and faux-pathetic
face it the kind of things to make all those "we don't want kids"
couples feel like they're on to something.
I mostly try to ignore "uppy," although
I have asked if he means he wants me to pick him up. And, he'll usually respond
with a more dignified, "pick me up" sometimes even with a "please"
thrown onto the end for earnestness. I'll pick him up.
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