May 22, 2002 - Wednesday
The boys' mother had a spring picnic at her work today and took the boys with
her, as several coworkers remember Harry's birth, as well as Jeremy's, and
have indirectly followed both boys as they have grown. Not surprisingly, she
reports that it was a rather tiring day with very little sustained conversation
with adults at the picnic. Still, Harry has often talked about going to "the
archives" and this seemed like a good opportunity to bring him back for
the first time since he was a baby. And, he did bring home memorably stories
of playing with a toy elephant that one of the people since keeps in his office,
a larger statue outside the archives, and having chicken at the picnic. His
mother says he feel asleep within five minutes of getting in the car to come
home at about 1:30pm, a sure sign of excitement and intrigue in a day in the
life of a two-year old.
When I laid down with Harry at bedtime and talked about the days events, I
thought the obvious response to the standard question "what did you do
today?" would be more stories from the picnic. But, the
question has become so routine - mostly from Harry asking me - that his
answer was a fairly direct, "I went to Christine's [daycare]." I
replied with, "you didn't go to Christine's today, what did you do TODAY?"
Harry said he got a boo-boo on his knee, also an incident from yesterday.
Harry's been using the word "yesterday" since last fall, although
there has always been a question as to how much of the concept he really understood.
"You went to a boo-boo at Christine's YESTERDAY, what did you do TODAY?"
I asked.
I could see Harry's brain at work, the two-year old furrowed brow, and then
a smile came to Harry's face. "I went to the archives." It was the
right answer, of course, and we went on to talk about the day, including some
adventures I had yet to hear. But, I also got the sense that Harry was hard
at work processing this idea of "yesterday" and "today."
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