August
9, 2001 - Thursday
It took Harry an awfully long time to say "mama" back
when he was learning his first words, but with all
her efforts getting him to be interested in books, it's probably all the
sweeter that "mommy" is the first word he has obviously read out loud. I'm
declaring that for today: Harry can read!
Over the last couple of days, I've been walking Harry around this little beach
community showing him and reading to him the various traffic signs. Mostly,
there are STOP signs, but a few Speed Limit 15 signs and, of course, plenty
of small road signs. And, Harry's been surprisingly interested in them, almost
always asking to see "more" signs. On the second day I did this, I pointed
to a stop sign we had been reading the day before and ask Harry what it said.
He said "stop" and it was obvious he was making progress, though
not at all certain that he was reading the word rather than remembering the
sign. That's the first part.
Then, last night, after Harry's meltdown and recovery,
he and I sat on the couch with crayons and he began to draw. In dissuading
him from grabbing all the crayons at once, I happened to write some words
on the paper and the distraction worked like a charm. First, I wrote HARRY
and said each letter separately, then the word. Then I wrote STOP, like we
say on the signs. With that, it seemed I had caught Harry's interest. He said
"more." So, I wrote GO and talked about his game
of STOP and GO. In all I wrote seven words before we were interrupted
by something I don't recall.
I don't remember all the details of last night because it didn't seem all
that noteworthy at the time. Sure, it was wonderful that Harry was showing
an interest in the words, but at the time, it felt more like Harry was showing
an interest in anything having happily recovered from the meltdown. Then,
today in a random moment and with his mother standing by, I happen to pick
up the same piece of paper with the crayon scribbles and words and pointed
to the word STOP, asking Harry what it said. Naturally, he ignored the question
as if either playing all his knowledge close to the proverbial vest or thinking
the question were too easy and beneath him. After all, I had asked him several
times over the last two days what that collection of letters said as we looked
at signs and he had given me an answer once already ("Come on, dad!").
But, while ignoring my question, Harry studied the paper and, after a moment
of concentration, pointed directly at the word MOMMY, putting his figure within
a centimeter of the paper, and read the word.
As soon as Harry said "mommy," there came the inevitable outpouring of praise
from his two parents, if not a dampening in the eyes. Yet, even before that
reaction, and as if he realized what he had just done and the hoopla it was
about to create from his parents, Harry quickly adjusted his index finger
to point specifically at the letter "O" in MOMMY and said, in a louder voice
than before, "O." It would have been an impressive display under other circumstances
and one, and somehow it seems Harry knew this instinctively, that would not
have brought the embarrassing huzzahs from his uncontrollable parents. But
unfortunately for our self-conscious boy, he'd let slip. He had read the word
MOMMY on a page aloud and it was too late to take back.
Sure, one could say he wasn't really reading and that he was remembering from
the night before how I wrote and said the word at that place on that page.
Maybe that's true, although we spent so little time on MOMMY or any of the
other words on the page that such an explanation seems rather far fetched.
Yet, regardless of what he was thinking, what is clear is that Harry recognized
that these letters written together on the page referred to something. And,
whether his understanding of MOMMY was by rote or logic, understanding that
letters on a page mean something is what reading essentially is. The rest
is just degree of proficiency and practice.
Comments,
opinions?