September 2, 2002 - Monday
"It's a lot of work." You hear it a lot when people are talking
about raising children, particularly when it's more than one at a time. Funny,
but I never really thought about daily living, whatever it really entailed,
as "work" before I had kids. But, I certainly get it now. We all
spent the day today at an annual extended family party and the boys' mother
and I each spent most of the time watching and running after two boys. We
did get a few moments when grandma, aunt, or cousin watched one or both for
a time, but mostly we were parents, on the job all day.
For whatever reason, Harry has been asking to watch the "Thomas"
video all weekend and that's not happened before. He watched
it first in March, but really hasn't been interested until now, perhaps
because it was a little scary for him. But, all of a sudden, he wants it all
the time and we've obligued, thinking we should just let it runs its course
since Harry's not usually interested in TV. He still looks quite concerned
about the crashes in the video, often standing up and walking to a corner
of the room or behind some stationary object like the piano bench during the
scariest parts, but watching nonetheless. And, while we've avoided television
and videos for most of Harry's life, this weekend with Harry being so wonderfully
occupied, it's easy to see why parents turn to videos so regularly as a method
of virtual baby-sitting. It can indeed be a refreshing break from work.
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